Sorry I've been a little absent, folks - I promise that once things calm down at school and I realize what I've gotten myself into, the regular Monday posting will resume as usual. In the adjustment period, though, I might be a little more sporadic on account of I'm not sure where I am of what's going on in the world.

What I do have for you today, though, is a cool site to check out when you have the chance: the masculine mystique rightly blamed. Here's a look at the "about" page:

In order to…

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Sorry I've been a little absent, all - just started law school on Monday and I'm trying to get my sea legs. It's gonna take a little while before I figure out where I am and what I'm doing with myself as a student again, but in the meantime, this particular item caught my eye. Many thanks to Leah for sending it my direction.

Major Trigger Warning for that link: it's a reddit from a convicted rapist, who answered anonymous questions about his perpetration. If you have the stomach for it, the perpetrator says…

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Remember that Boston Service Hero contest? I won! Thanks for the votes! But what I really want to talk about is how all BARCC volunteers are service heroes.

BARCC started out in 1973 as a totally volunteer-run organization. We have staff now, but we still have 100-150 volunteers at any given time; those volunteers contribute enough time to make up 19 staffers, almost doubling BARCC’s service capacity, and that is *awesome*. We have such a tremendously dedicated bunch!

Both of the volunteers nominated for the ServiceHero contest were…

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Good stormy morning all!  May the dark clouds congealed over our fair city not impede your day overly much!

I just got back from vacation and my brain is still mostly on the beach, and so this is a good time to write a movie review!  Yay movies!  Last night I got out to see Scott Pilgrim vs. the World, based on the comic series by Brian Lee O’Malley.  First thing to note: this is a fun movie.  It speaks pretty directly to the heart of the (male) gamer, and the number…

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I love RuPaul’s Drag Race. This puzzled my husband at first - “Since when have you been interested in drag queens?” Well, since about always; my first published story has a drag queen in it. As time has gone by, I’ve been looking at why the world of drag fascinates me so, so that I can explain it better, and I think that, for me, it’s about gender performance.

So a little bit about gender performance, by which I mean that gender is indeed a thing that we choose to perform. We are taught how to perform…

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